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Decoding Eisoptrophobia: The Fear of Mirrors
Do you hate the idea of looking at yourself in the mirror?
Is the idea of catching your reflection in the mirror or any reflective surface repulsive?
Do you get nervous every time you see any reflective surface, such as kitchen utensils or cutlery pieces—even foil wrap?
You probably don’t have any idea why this happens. Or maybe you’re so used to avoiding mirrors that it’s become part of your daily routine. As long as it doesn’t create any major issue in life, it’s okay to avoid it, right?
This condition is called eisoptrophobia or the phobia of mirrors. With eisoptrophobia, you feel extreme fear or revulsion towards mirrors and seeing your reflection. Though it might sound scary, you can learn to manage it.
What Is Eisoptrophobia?
Derived from the Greek language, eisoptro means “mirror,” and phobia means “fear.” This condition is a fear of reflection where an individual exhibits extreme fear and anxiety over mirrors and self-reflection.
Eisoptrophobia, or the fear of mirrors, is similar to spectrophobia which is the extreme fear of seeing ones own reflection and how it may appear.
Don’t confuse this with a hatred or dislike for mirrors themselves. Eisoptrophobia is a mental health condition where you are unable to control your reaction to your reflection in mirrored surfaces.
Everything You Need to Know about Eisoptrophobia
Just like most phobias, eisoptrophobia, also known as catoptrophobia, is a simple phobia. As phobias are considered anxiety disorders, they’re usually caused by a specific reason. They usually also have a specific trigger, in this case, a mirror.
Most who have phobias are aware of their condition. While they understand that the fear is unreasonable, they cannot control their reactions.
Also, phobias are generally caused by reasons beyond your control. However, once you focus on the cause, you can treat your condition accordingly.
What Causes Eisoptrophobia?
As eisoptrophobia is fear of reflections, eisoptrophobia has something to do with how a person views him or herself. There are many reasons why this happens. However, since it is an anxiety disorder, it could be due to one of the following reasons:
Trauma
A major physical or psychological trauma inflicted on a person may cause this disorder. Sufferers of emotional or physical harassment such as acid attack victims and those who have faced stalking or sexual assault may develop a deep repulsion for their appearance.
If they were targeted for their appearance, they start feeling that must be why they went through such a horrific incident. Seeing themselves in the mirrors reminds them of their painful experiences.
Low Self-Esteem
People with low self-esteem may feel they’re not good enough to look at. Some may also develop a phobia of looking at their own reflection.
Clinical Depression
Those with depression are battling within themselves. Though there could be many reasons for depression, one reason could be how they view themselves.
This affects their confidence and self-esteem, making them incapable of loving themselves. Though not everyone with depression is eisoptrophobic, it can be one of the side effects of depression.
Body Dysmorphic Disorder
In this disorder, one starts obsessing over their physical attributes. They may feel their eyes are too big, their face too fat, or their ears too large, etc. These are minor flaws to others. However, to the individual with body dysmorphic disorder, it’s a source of embarrassment.
Though many get embarrassed about such things, they forget about them eventually. However, those who have this disorder obsess over them. Their obsessing can lead to a phobia of reflections.
Head Injury
Being in an accident that causes brain damage can also lead to phobias. Coupled with severe traumatic experiences, these phobias can be specific. The brain works differently for those who have had a head injury. Those with head injury may be aware of how irrational their fears are, yet feel incapable of changing their situation.
Hereditary
This is rare, but if someone in the family has a similar disorder, then one can inherit it. This has nothing to do with personal experiences. It is a genetic disposition toward developing an anxiety disorder or phobia.
Though eisoptrophobia causes are complex and inter-related with many different issues, once you learn about them, it’s easier to find a solution.
Symptoms of Eisoptrophobia
For most phobias the symptoms are similar. The following physical, emotional, and mental symptoms could surface if you have a fear of mirrors or reflective surfaces.
Physical Symptoms
- Increase in heartrate
- Panic attacks
- Sweating
- Fainting spells
- Nausea or dizziness
- Shortness of breath
- Trembling or muscle spasms
Mental/Emotional Symptoms
- Irrational behavior around mirrors
- Repulsive reaction to mirrors
- Extreme avoidance of reflective surfaces
- Screaming or shouting after looking at mirrors
- The presence of a mirror causes one to feel unwell
These symptoms are minor but clearly indicate a problem. If you or someone you know is exhibiting such symptoms, take them seriously. The phobia is treatable, but left unchecked, it can lead to more serious issues.
How Do You Deal with Eisoptrophobia?
Before seeing an expert for eisoptrophobia treatment, ask yourself how severe your condition is. Many find comfort in learning their fear is a valid condition with treatment options.
Many healthcare professional are of the opinion that phobias should be treated when symptoms begin to disrupt an individual’s daily life. If it’s still in the early stages, there are various methods to cope with them on your own.
Self-Help
If you’re feeling low because you’re wondering why you have a fear of mirrors, try to relax. There are ways you can learn to manage this disorder on your own. The most important thing is knowing what caused your phobia. Knowing the cause will help you determine best treatment methods, either through self-care or with professional help.
These are some methods for self-care:
Relaxation Techniques
Yoga, meditation, or breathing exercises can help you control the flow of thoughts. It also helps with other anxiety disorders. The goal is to train your mind and channel your thoughts positively.
Maintaining a Journal
When you maintain a personal diary, you write about the day, thoughts, and feelings. It helps sort out muddled emotions and gives you a healthy outlet to channel and vent your feelings.
Mental Activities
Games such as sudoku, word games, and puzzles keep your brain working and teach you many new things. This will keep you occupied in a positive way. Mental activities are helpful in mind training.
Learning to Love Yourself
If you have low confidence or self-esteem, it could be due to someone’s negative influence for a prolonged period. Your goal is to understand why you feel this way about yourself and change your perspective. You can do this with the help of activities such as:
- Make a daily list of the things you love and dislike about yourself
- Ask others you trust how they feel about you
- Work on your flaws and appreciate your good qualities
The point of these activities is to learn how to love yourself. This might make it easier for you to see your reflection. These self-learning techniques will take time to show effect. However, you must be willing to practice them regularly.
Professional Help
Professional help is for those who are unable to manage their phobias on their own. Your therapist may suggest one or more types of therapies to help you overcome your fear of reflective surfaces.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
With CBT, your therapist works with you to try to determine the cause of the phobia. Often patients are aware of the cause, but sometimes they’re unsure. With the help of a mental health professional, you might eventually remember an incident from the past which may have triggered your fear. Once that is determined, you can move forward with learning coping skills to better manage your phobia.
Exposure Therapy
Here you’ll be desensitized or exposed to your phobia in small doses. It’s like how we get vaccinated—with a small dose of the antigen to build antibodies. Similarly, to be desensitized, a therapist uses various techniques to help you face your fears gradually in a safe, controlled environment. It’s a very effective method.
Mindfulness Therapy
When you’re aware of a problem, your brain activity changes. Similarly, in the case of a phobia, a heightened sense of awareness about the phobia and the fact that it’s unreasonable can help manage the phobia. Your therapist will work with you in various ways to help you become aware of your emotions and fears.
Learning to Cope with Eisoptrophobia
Most mental health illnesses do not have a bona fide cure. However, there are many different ways to learn to cope with your fear, to better manage it, and in some cases, even overcome it.
Though you might not automatically start admiring yourself in the mirror, you will see improvement in your reactions. You might experience some amount of hesitancy to look at mirrors, but your symptoms will be much more within your control.
Start small and take it one step at a time. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Working on phobias takes time and patience.
Conclusion
Eisoptrophobia isn’t something to feel embarrassed about. You can find a way to cope with your fears. Stay determined that one day you’ll no longer be scared of looking in the mirror. With time and effort, you’ll get there.