Tapinophobia – The Fear of Being Contagious
What’s the most contagious disease? Measles takes the top spot.
Someone who has measles can infect 90% of people nearby. Not only that, but the virus also stays active up to 2 hours after someone with measles has left a room.
Childhood diseases like chickenpox and mumps are not far behind, followed by new diseases like COVID-19.
Given how easily diseases can spread, it’s a good idea to take measures to avoid infecting others when you are sick. But what if this turns into an unreasonable fear of being contagious? What if your daily or weekly routine comes to a halt because of Tapinophobia?
What Is Tapinophobia?
Tapinophobia is the extreme fear of being contagious. Sufferers constantly worry that they will make others sick or even kill them. This irrational fear worries a person to such an extent that they are in constant anguish. At first glance, it seems like a valid concern. There’s no doubt that a contagious disease easily spreads from one person to another. You can get them when you touch someone who is sick. Sometimes, a contagious disease can spread when a sick person sneezes or coughs. You can even get them from holding an object that a sick person has touched. When you are sick, it’s a good idea to avoid interacting with people, wear masks, and handwash frequently. But this caution can be taken to extremes. Do you refuse to go outside because you are afraid you may be contagious? Do you worry that going out may make other people sick? If you answered yes, you may have Tapinophobia. In severe cases, people not only avoid the situations they fear but also the thought of it altogether. The brain creates a reaction to the fearful situation even when the person is not actually in that situation.
Tapinophobia: A Social Phobia
Social phobias are characterized by phobias that involve other people or social situations. Examples are:
● Performance anxiety
● Fear of public speaking
● Fear of embarrassment or humiliation
● Fear of eating in public
What Causes Tapinophobia?
As of now, there’s no single definite cause for phobias. Like other phobias, a lot of factors play interrelated roles to develop Tapinophobia, including trauma, genetics, and upbringing. Let’s take a closer look at these Tapinophobia causes.
A family history of mental illness increases the chances of a person developing Tapinophobia. If this genetic predisposition is combined with a traumatic experience, a person can have a full-fledged phobia.
A physically or mentally painful experience can also trigger Tapinophobia. This usually occurs during childhood.
For example, someone close to you may have died of an infectious disease. Another is living through a pandemic, where lockdowns and quarantines affected daily life. Both of these experiences can influence how you behave decades later.
A person who already has another social phobia, say Agoraphobia, can also manifest Tapinophobia.
Any of the above reasons or a combination of those can lead to a person developing Tapinophobia.
Symptoms of Tapinophobia
Now that you know what can trigger the fear of being contagious, let’s explore the tell-tale signs that you have this phobia.
A person with Tapinophobia will make sure that they are not contagious.
● Wash hands repetitively
● Refuse to shake hands or hug others
● Keep a safe distance from people
● Develop compulsive behavior to avoid coming in close contact with others
● Resort to justifying their fear to themselves
Sufferers often go through a full-blown panic attack when confronted with gatherings and other triggers. Other signs include:
● Hot/cold flashes
● Numbness or tingling sensations
● Increased heart rate
● Dry mouth
● Inability to articulate words
Fear of being contagious takes a toll on a person’s psychological state and forces them to live in constant dread.
● Fear of death
● Anxiety at the thoughts of being contagious
● Feeling sad
● Inability to handle anxiety
The symptoms vary from person to person and depend on many factors. While some may avoid gatherings, some resort to continuously sanitizing themselves throughout the day.
Self Help Guide to Coping with Tapinophobia
Tapinophobia treatment starts the day you take self-help steps to reduce anxiety. The key is to redirect energy toward something productive rather than giving in to the dread.
Practicing yoga puts you in a meditative state of mind and relieves the anxiety associated with Tapinophobia.
Doing cardio workouts like running, biking, swimming, etc. diverts your mind from worrying. They also help you expend nervous energy.
Meditation distracts your mind from the negative feelings. Instead, you focus on something calming. When you meditate, you focus on the sounds and sensations around you. You may observe the way your belly rises and falls as you breathe.
It takes practice to experience the calming effects of meditation, but it will be worth it.
This chemical raises your heart rate so you feel more anxious. Eliminating coffee, chocolate, and energy drinks from your diet will help reduce your day-to-day anxiety.
Seeking Professional Help
You can overcome the fear that you are the reason for other people’s sickness by initiating treatment.
Professional help gets you to the root of the problem. No single treatment can cure Tapinophobia, but some treatments do reduce the anxiety associated with it. The following are some techniques used by professionals. They are not specific to Tapinophobia; they’ve proven to be useful in most phobia treatments.
● Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
● Talking Therapy
● Dialectical Behavior Techniques
● Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction
● Exposure Therapy
Of these methods, these two are pretty useful for people with Tapinophobia.
This is essentially counseling, which involves talking to a counselor about your thoughts. With the help of a therapist, you organize your thoughts and understand your reactions better.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Like talk therapy, CBT improves your mental health by allowing you to better understand why you think and behave the way you do. The psychosocial intervention is used to treat anxiety disorders like GAD and OCD It will guide you to analyze your fears deeply and introspect rather than give an instant subconscious reaction. Investing in professional help is worth it. Never take a phobia lightly because phobias can take over a person’s daily life. Your anxiety can also sow the seeds of depression.
How to Cope with Tapinophobia
Are you uncertain how to cope with Tapinophobia? The first step involves acknowledging your fear. Only then can you work towards coping with its symptoms. A person with Tapinophobia may develop “safety behaviors” that ensure that they do not come in with their fear. While these avoidance behaviors create a temporary haven for the person, relying on them can worsen the condition. For one thing, it’s extremely difficult to live in complete isolation. Doing so requires moving to the wilderness and living off the grid. Instead, it’s better to practice stress-management techniques like meditation or yoga. Positive affirmations may also help you cope. Rationalize your negative feelings and tell yourself that it is safe to meet with others. Realize that the normal precautions are enough to safeguard the health of people around you. There is no shortcut to overcoming a phobia. It will take patience, time, and consistent effort.
Tapinophobia can seem hard to get rid of. But with patience and effort, one can beat it. Soon, you can go out without fear of making other people sick.